Got a challenge? Flip the script.
(From the Vault)

One of the most valuable tools a man can master in his personal interactions is the ability to 'flip the script.'

Let's look at a couple common examples:

You've got your game on. Looking good, nice opener, and you're making a great connection with a girl; invariably you'll have a guy come in and throw up a block.

(Translate: Undermine you; test you to see if he can make you look stupid in front of the girl. One of those weird things lame guys do who still see the world as one of scarecity/zero-sum)

The solution? Flip it right back.

Tell him he's got the most awesome game you've ever seen - that his Old Navy fleece sleeveless jacket is the bomb and those khaki Dockers are incredible; you wish you could dress as sweet as him.

If he continues to try and steal your frame - push your girl on him. Tell her 'wow man - this guy is really a hunk. If I were gay I'd ask him out for one of those really sweet girl drinks and hope he'd take me for a ride in his sweet Camaro.'

Don't get uptight - dont be threatened. See the opportunity.

Woman don't like to be told to do anything - pushing anything on a woman instantly turns them off to that thing.

Got a girl throwing you a challenge? Throw it right back.

I recall one email exchange with a woman - she saw my profile on a dating site, complete with me in some fun halloween costume, having a great time. She wrote me about it, asked me 'should I be scared?'

I replied 'I don't know - do you scare easily?'

Instead of getting worked up over those challenges - look for them. They are little opportunities that pop up, giving you an opportunity to show girls YOU are in control...that they are playing in YOUR house.

After all it's your life - it's your reality. The people you meet are just your guests.

- RAZR